The culture of these clubs is different from others. As a white guy, it can be a bit intimidating when you first set foot inside them. I remember when I first moved to London and had started dating a beautiful PR girl called Joanne, she took me to one of these clubs to meet up with her friends (I tell the full story earlier on this blog) and I just couldn't believe how amazing the girls were; I found it almost impossible to relax and just enjoy the environment. In fact, I had to leave.
The whole vibe in these clubs is for the white girls to look as hot as they can, encouraged by their Black male partners - with perfect long hair, very short skirts and expensive make-up. You just know any one of these goddess girls would be the fuck of the century - if only you could afford her!
In London, the well-connected Black male stud, and the stunning “Essex” girl, are the height of sexual vogue right now. They are accessories to each other - the Black guys want the stunning white girl on their arm - and the white girls all want the big Black guy who can get them in to all the best and most exclusive London nightclubs.
The girls are confident with their sexuality, and not in any way false or embarrassed about their attractions as previous generations of white women may have been. The girls think “I’m stunning and I love sex, so I’m going out to get the ultimate fuck, and the ultimate fuck is a Black guy”. For the Black guys, it’s a way of demonstrating their status - and that they're the ones now getting to fuck the most sexually desirable women in society.
I was in a new club in Farringdon on Friday night, watching some amazing 6 foot girls – perfect exposed flat stomachs, navel piercings, big tits, perfect hair and long, waxed legs. They were all really insular in a huddle, until a group of big Black guys entered … Then they were straight into the middle of the dance floor, preening and showing off.
What's holding back white guys is that they too shy, feel too inferior and already very low self esteem is incredibly heighten by these big strong black strong and their drop dead gorgeous white women who intimidate the hell out of them to point where some of them choose a gay life style..
ReplyDeleteI agree with all of your statement except the final part about the gay life style. I think if you're gay, you're gay. If you're straight, you're straight. There are plenty of straight white guys who support the interracial lifestyle.
Deleteyou are so right most straight guys support the right of women to choose BBC in the relationships
DeleteIn all of your years of visiting mixed bars and clubs in London, did you ever see white couples attending a black bar together? Better yet, did you ever see a white couple leave a club along with a Black gentleman? Interracial pairings of all types are increasing, but i'm more interested in knowing if there in an increase in couples participating in the Interracial Lifestyle.
ReplyDeleteGreat blog!
Thanks!
DeleteYes I've seen white couples attending "Black bars" - but to be honest, I don't read too much into that as most bars in London are to some degree mixed.
I have very often seen white females at Black dominated bars and clubs - sometimes mind-blowingly gorgeous - either in pairs or small groups.